Tuesday, November 12, 2013

Loving Me Some Lurkers!

This post is dedicated to all the lovely lurkers that come by and read but for whatever reason shy away from saying hi....

I love to hear from people and so this is my plea to you... Come out of hiding and say a quick hello.

Well, I can help with that!!! 

De-Lurk Question List:
Take a look at the questions below, if you want to answer only one... That is great or if you get into it and want to answer more, then go with it!!  I will start out with super easy and get more personal so you have lots to pick from.  You don 't even have to tell me your name!!!  :0)

1. What is your most favorite movie character (not the actor/actress playing the character) and why?
2. What is the best introduction to a character you have seen in a movie and why do you feel it is the best or remembered? 
3. What movie have you watched the most times and could continue watching over and over?
4. Wine or beer or other?
5. Night out or night in?
6. Gym or Ice cream shop?
7. How many blogs do you currently follow?
8. Are you a spankno or spanko?
9. Do you practice in a DD relationship or just interested in reading these types of blogs?
10. If you could pick a subject for a future blog post what would it be?

Ok, there now you have a variety of things to get you started... 

But even if you don't de-lurk, I would still like to say:
For coming by and reading my little blog!


  1. Happy LOL Day Irish Lucky!

    Thanks for being a part of this awesome community. I love your "De-Lurk Question List" - very creative!

    We're looking forward to getting to know you,

    Clint & Chelsea
    Learning Domestic Discipline

    1. Hi Clint & Chelsea,

      Thanks so much for coming by! Now I have another blog to read, very excited.. I can't wait to read all about you both and get to know you better. :0)

  2. oh, oh #10 please...I want to hear more about your extended spanky family relationships!

    I so happy you joined this community Irish. I love reading here! Hi Alex!

    1. Hi Wilma,

      Alex says hi back! We like to check your blog and see your new banner on the top, they are all super cute! Thanks so much for all your support and advice, we really appreciate it. I will start writing a post just for you and your request to read more about the "spanky family" as you put it! :0) Plus Leah seconded the request too.

  3. Happy Lurker's Day! You know I'm no lurker but hello anyhow! :D

    1. Hi Sara,

      Thanks so much for stopping by on LOL day and saying hi... No, you are definitely not a lurker... Thank goodness, cause I love hearing from ya. :0)

  4. Hi! De-lurking here. I'm not a movie buff, but I do like ice cream shops better than gyms. :)

    A future blog post subject would be what to do when you're tired of spanking. LOL

    1. Hi Anastasia,

      Thank you sooooo much for de-lurking!!! Plus now I have another blog to check out and am super excited!! I promise to write a post on what to do when tired of spanking... I already have a few ideas!! HA! Thanks again from coming by, please come back and say hi again soon. :0)

  5. I'm not a lurker here more of a stalker lol I absolutely love your blog and your relationship.

    So just popping in to say hi and I'm glad to have you around :)

    1. Hi Missy,

      You are too funny, more of a stalker... Love it! I love that you come by and your comments are so super supportive. Thanks so much for coming back and saying hi.. :0)

  6. Hi!

    Happy LOL 8 day! I'm a regular visitor to your blog, and always enjoy your posts. I prefer white wine.


    1. Hi Hermione,

      I just found your blog, so now I have several more after LOL day to read through.. Super excited, love finding new blogs. You know I didn't even know Bonnie and she organized the LOL event!! I just found her blog with all the links, so I am going to spend the entire weekend reading!!! HA!

      Thanks so much for coming by my little blog and saying hi!! Can't wait to get to know you better. :0)

  7. I enjoy this blog Irish :)
    #4 ~ an occasional beer watching a ballgame, a nice glass of red wine with dinner on special occasions and I enjoy a green iced tea the most :)
    Happy LOL Day,
    # MrBBSpanker

    1. Hi MrBBSpanker,

      Thanks so much for saying hi and answering my de-lurk question. My favorite is red wine, Merlot or a nice Cab... That with a book and peace, I am a happy gal. :0) I can't wait to read through your blog and get to know you better.. Thanks so much for stopping by!

  8. Ive commented once or twice, but I really need to start commenting more! You have a wonderful blog, happy LOL day! Oh, and im a spankO!

    1. Hi Kenzie,

      Thanks so much for stopping by! I lurk more than I comment too.. I need to get better at saying hi to folks, as I know how happy comments make me. Even if I don't have advice to certain situations, I still think just saying hi would give people support and courage to keep blogging and sharing. So I am going to vow to do better! :0)

      Thanks so much for coming by, I really enjoy your blog as well!

  9. Happy LOLday Irish
    I'm a night in with ice cream sort of a person!

    1. Hi Janey,

      Thanks so much for coming by and answering one of my de-lurk questions. I wish I could eat ice cream, I found out last year I am allergic to dairy. Grrrrrr.. How does this happen in my thirties I would like to know!?! Of all the dairy that is what I miss the most.. Sigh. I wish I was allergic to the gym instead.. HA! :0)

  10. Happy LOL Day, Irish Lucky! :)

    1. Hi Grace,

      Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi on LOL day!!! :0)

  11. How did I not find you until today? I keep thinking I've found everyone lol.

    Happy LoL Day!

    1. Hi Chickadee,

      I just found you too!!! I found Bonnie's blog and she is like the link queen over blog land... I have so many blogs to read this weekend, I am just not going to get anything else done. :0) So glad we found each other and I can't wait to get to know you better!

  12. Happy LoL Day Irish Lucky!
    I'm so glad you're here!
    I love both beer or wine, depending on the day - and "Enchanted April", "Monsoon Wedding" or "Lord of the Rings" are the movies I'll never tire of. :)


    1. Hi Cali,

      Wine rules! :0) I have never seen Enchanted April or Monsoon Wedding, so I have two new movies to watch!! Oh my goodness Lord Of the Rings, yes I really got into all those movies.. :0)

      Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi and answering some of my de-lurk questions. :0)

  13. Number 3 - The Battle Of Britain. Happy LOL Day.


    1. Hello Spankedhortic,

      Thanks so much for coming by and answering one of my de-lurk questions.. Yet another movie for me to check out! :0) Plus another blog for me to read through... Can't wait to read all about ya!

  14. Hey Elle, #7 was over 200 - WOW, I tell myself -- but in cleaning some out, almost thirty had been completely deleted and maybe ten more went private. :)

    Happy LOL Day!!

    1. Hi Rogue,

      Oh my goodness.. Over 200!!! You are one busy lady... Wow! I had noticed a bunch of blogs went private or got deleted towards the start of summer. One day there and poof gone the next. It was really sad, I felt like I lost some friends even though I had never spoken to them... I was a full time lurker at that point, but I am now after LOL day find many more blogs to investigate.. Super excited, but not sure I could ever follow 200+ blogs. :0)

      Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi and answering one of my de-lurk questions.. I have lurked around your blog for a very long time and I think only commented once.. I need to get better at saying hi and not lurking around. I am going to work on that. :0)

  15. First time here...I prefer beer, I hate wine hangovers and try to avoid them at all costs! Happy LOL day!

    1. Hi Kim,

      Wow, so glad you found me and decided to say hi! Hope you come back again and now I can read through your blog as well. You are soooo right about wine hangovers!! I have only done that one time to myself and I vow never EVER to let that happen again.. Oh wow, really bad! :0)

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    1. Hi Leah,

      Too funny.. Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi.. or Wilma's hi. :0) I will post on my spanky family soon!

  17. Hi Lucky Irish...thanks for commenting on my blog! I am going to have to go with Rhett Butler for number one. I have read Gone With the Wind about 20 times and seen the movie at least that many time...by the way, the book is better! Oh and why I like him...tall, dark, handsome, rich and actually pretty caring and concerned about the women around him and a bit of a rogue in the process. Plus southern! And smart!

    1. Hi Cygnet,

      I just found your blog and am super excited to get a chance to sit down and read all about ya. Oh my goodness Rhett Buttler is hot enough to make any woman give a dam and the book is by far better.. Totally agree!!

      Thanks so much for coming by and answering one of my de-lurk questions! :0)

  18. Well, you did it.
    You're questions drew me out of the lurk zone...First Time....EVER!!!!!!!!
    I shall try to answer all of them...we will see how that goes :)

    1.) I am a HUGE movie nerd, so picking just one character is a rather difficult task, but I am going to say Samantha Baker (Molly Ringwald) in Sixteen Candles. She would be my choice because I can relate to her nerdiness, lack of social life (in high school) and being lost in the shuffle at family events. Oh yeah, in the end, I snagged a football player, too. (But, from a different school)
    2.) The best introduction of a movie character...oh my gosh, I am unable to list just one, sooooo
    Don Vito Corleone in The Godfather 2
    John Coffey in The Green Mile
    Leon in The Professional
    Marvin Boggs in RED
    Del Griffith in Planes, Trains & Automobiles
    Euphegenie Doubtfire in Mrs. Doubtfire
    Dorothy Michaels in Tootsie
    The Phantom in The Phantom of the Opera
    Okay, I could continue, but then I would be hijacking your blog.
    3.) The movie I have watched the most and could watch over and over again....
    well, see any of above mentioned titles, plus,
    The Bounty Hunter
    Crazy, Stupid, Love
    P.S, I Love You
    Shawshank Redemption
    It's A Mad, Mad, Mad, Mad World
    Guess Who's Coming to Dinner?
    Anything with Elvis Presley
    Any Marvel Superhero or early Batman movie
    Frankie Avalon beach movies.........I have to stop.
    4.) Wine, Beer or Other??? Yes...depends on the season/situation.
    5.) Night out or night in? Same as number four, lol.
    6.) Gym or Ice Cream Shop? I desire the self discipline for the former and the self discipline to resist the latter. :-P
    7.) The number of blogs I follow is too numerous to list as I have been lurking for a year and a half. :-/
    8.) Spanko.......
    9.) I do not practice in a DD relationship, but I am interested in practicing this dynamic. I believe it would benefit the deep bond Petruchio and I already share. Reading your blog and the blogs of others has given me plenty of insight, but not enough gumption to bring this to Petruchio.
    10.) I believe that future blog posts, after the initial introduction and origin of the relationship are best if based on everyday circumstances within each couple's relationship.
    Well, this response has become rather wordy and LOL day is almost doe, so I shall retire for the evening
    Thank you so much for sharing your life, I look forward to reading more about your relationship with Alex.

    Take care,
    Katharina Minola

    1. Hi Katharina,

      Thank you sooooo much for de-lurking!!! Yahoo... So happy!! Plus you get the gold star for answering all the de-lurking questions.. Wow, a movie nerd you truly are... My need to watch movie list just got REALLY long! :0)

      So you are a spanko but don't practice DD today.. Do you and Petruchio use spanking for fun times then? I have heard that is a wonderful stepping stone to DD... Alex and I have done this exactly backwards, we are now having fun with spanking too now. :0)

      Thanks so much for commenting and coming by, I do hope you return and please do say hi every now and then!!! :0)

    2. Stopping by to say "Hi" and to let you know I sent my reply, to your question above, in an email. :)


  19. *small shy waive*
    Hi glad I found your blog!
    Happy LOL day!!!!!

    1. Hi Sarah,

      I am super glad you found my blog too... I just found yours and have gotten to read a bit of it.. Love it! :0) I can't wait to find time to read even more.. Thanks so much for stopping by and saying hi.. Can't wait to get to know you better!

  20. Hi Lucky! Just saying hi and happy belated LOL day.

    1. Hi Susie,

      Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi!!! Love, love, love your blog.. :0)

  21. Is there a term for half spanko and half spankno? While I'm a spanko when it comes to the fun ones, I'm definitely a spankno when I'm in trouble.

    1. Hi Dana,

      Hmmmm.. There has to be, cause that is me as well. Love the fun spankings but could REALLY do without the punishment ones... Let's see how about Spankmaybe or SpankOFF (Only For Fun)... We really need to find a term, I bet most the ladies in this community fall into this category with us. :0)

      Thanks so much for coming by and answering one of the de-lurk questions!!

  22. I love your background picture. Saw you visited my blog yesterday and wanted to come by and visit yours.

    I'll answer some of your questions.
    #1 and 2 require too much thought right now.
    # 3 - there are too many to mentioned
    # 4 - other _Lemon Drop Martini
    # 5 - a night in after a night out
    #6 - Ice Cream shop
    # 7 - Never counted
    # 8- Spanko
    # 9 - Not in a DD
    #10 - Whatever you choose, it's your blog.

    See you soon.

    1. Hi Sunny,

      Yes, I found lots of new blogs to explore yesterday! LOL Day was a blast.. :0) Wow and you answered some of my questions.. Thanks so much for coming by and saying hi.. I look forward to getting to know you better! :0)

  23. I just found your blog on the LDD site. I enjoyed reading over some of your posts. I have a blog, but I'm not very good at posting on it. I look forward to reading more of your posts. God bless you and yours, -Belle L.

  24. Hi Belle,

    So glad you found me and left a message so I know you were here! I will come by and read through your blog! Love finding new blogs... :0) I look forward to getting to know you better!