Thursday, September 26, 2013

Kenzie's Spanking Survey

I saw this survey and it looked fun, only it has taken me days to get it done and out... Life just seems to get in the way of fun some times... :0)

1.) Was there a certain event from your life, that sparked the spanking interest? If so, feel free to share: 
We have always done DD, but he grew up watching I Love Lucy! So I blame Ricky!

2.) What do you most often call your HOH/Spanker? (Sir, Master, etc.)
Um...Out loud or in my head?  :0)
I have pulled Sir out once or twice, but I was in super big trouble.

3.) What does your HOH/Spanker most often call you? (Young Lady, Girl, etc)
Woman!  (Never goes too well with this one) Little one and Hun... (These two are pretty safe)

4.) We're building a big spanko bonfire, which one implement are you bringing to toss in?
Wooden Paddle...Hate it!!!

5.) We all know how many punishments there are to choose from; spanking, lecturing, corner time, etc.. but what about rewards? Do you have a favorite 'reward' that is used? If not, what's something you'd like used as a reward?

Hhhhmmmmm... We haven't really done the reward thing (but I am going to bring that up now, so thank you!)  I would love extra alone time with him...Maybe a romantic night out or away.

6.) What's that one phrase, that when it's used, you know you're in trouble?

"We will be having a discussion about that..."  or "That is a discussion point!" or pretty much any phrase that follows the "Woman!" exclamation.  

7.) What's something you'd like to cross off your spanking bucket list? Being shy is not an option here people. ;)

Um... Ok, so I am really behind the times and have just read 50 Shades of Grey... I have never been spanked for fun or used any kind of sex toy... So a combination of those would definitely be on my list to cross off.  :0)  

8.) Someone comes to you, and says they just started practicing domestic discipline. What's the biggest piece of advice you can give them?

Trust, communication and patience... Positive intent.  These are all key things to focus on.

9.) Where is the craziest place you've been spanked?

Elevator...  No wait, Mall bathroom!  Yeah, I think that one wins. 

10.) We talked about a spanking bucket list, now let's get a little more into it.. what about a BDSM style bucket list? What's something you'd like to cross off of that?

Hhhhmmmm.. Maybe a flogger experience.. Or very light bondage. 

11.) Is there a punishment you thought you'd never try, but ended up trying and finding effective?

Nope...  Not yet anyway.  :0)

12.) What is something you wish you knew before you started DD/TTWD?

That is had a name and more people still do this past the 50s.. I really thought my husband was born a generation are two too late.  

13.) If you could take a break from one rule, for one week, which rule would it be?

Well those following my blog know the actual rule list is new.. So not sure at this point which one is going to be the hardest and one to go for a week.  :0)  

14.) This might sound like a no brainer at first, but really think about it. If you could only have one sort of spanking in your dynamic, would you rather it be discipline or fun?

Sigh... Discipline, I am sort of a hand full.  (so can't believe I am admitting this.)

15.) If your HOH/Spanker messed up, and offered to let you spank them, would you? Why/Why not?

No way.. It would just be/feel WRONG.  

16.) What is your favorite form of aftercare?

Cuddle time.. I love to lay in his arms and cuddle in.  

17.) How was DD/spanking brought up to you, or how did you bring it up to your partner?

He flat out told me if I put myself in a dangerous situation he would put me over his knee and spank me... That was prior to us even dating, we grew up together and the man crushed on me for years without me having a clue.  Well and he is four years older than me, so he had to wait for a bit to take action on his feelings. He was just born alpha and I fell in love with him anyway. HA! 

18.) If your spanker could use only one implement from here on out, what would they use?

The wooden paddle I hate.... Sigh.

19.) Do you have a favorite pair of panties to wear when you know you're going to be spanked? If so, what are they?

Well... No.  Plus they don't get to stay on anyway so...  

20.) Unfortunately/fortunately (depending on how you look at it) mind reading hasn't yet been perfected. What's something you want your HOH/Dom/Spanker to know? (For example, don't be afraid to spank harder, or something along those lines.) Don't be afraid, spill!

Wow... This is a REALLY good question! :0)  When he is spanking me and he asks me questions, drives me crazy... Stop a second and let me answer hello, or don't ask me anything in that moment.. Because some times he wants an answer and other times he just keeps going... Way confusing and I have other things on my mind at that point...Like how my backside is on fire!!

My husband found Kenzie's blog and I saw this and thought it would be fun... Thanks so much Kenzie!!  

Irish Lucky


  1. That was really fun to read! And I hope your hubby reads it and agrees with your last answer, lol!

    Thank you for sharing Irish Lucky ~

    :) Cali

    1. Hi Cali, Thanks! My husband was perplexed a bit by the last answer and wont promise to not ask questions in that particular position...But will try to remember to stop and give me time to answer when he is expecting one... Sigh. He also said to leave Ricky alone, that I Love Lucy is a classic. Too funny. :0)